What is the difference between embedding and referencing in MongoDB?

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MongoDB models relationships in two ways — the choice depends on access patterns. Embedding — nest related data inside the parent document. One read fetches everything. Best when the child is always read with the parent and doesn't grow unbounded. Referencing — store the related document's _id in the parent (or vice versa). Use $lookup or a second query to fetch. Best when the relationship is many-to-many, the child is large, or it's queried independently. 16 MB document limit — embedding unbounded arrays is dangerous. Hybrid is fine — embed a few recent items, reference the rest. Embed for: one-to-few, always accessed together, owned by parent. Reference for: one-to-many, shared data, independently accessed. The hybrid pattern (embed summary, reference details) shows advanced thinking. Know the 16MB document limit as the embedding constraint.